The government can't run a train service on time but sure, let's hand them authority over our kids' entire social lives — if you think legislation is a substitute for parental conversation you've already lost the plot.
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Should governments ban social media for under-16s, or is that just parenting by legislation?
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I grew up in a pretty isolated town and online communities were genuinely the only place I found people like me as a teenager, so forgive me if I'm not thrilled about wealthy politicians deciding that experience shouldn't exist anymore.
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Every single time governments try to enforce age bans online it either fails completely or just pushes kids toward darker, less moderated corners of the internet — this isn't protection, it's theater.
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The data on teen mental health predates social media and the causal link everyone keeps citing is genuinely weak — we're about to strip an entire generation of digital access based on moral panic dressed up as science.
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My 14-year-old uses Instagram to stay connected with her cousin who moved abroad last year — you really want to legislate that relationship away? Some of us are actual parents who can handle this ourselves, thanks.
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Meta's own internal research showed they knew Instagram harmed teen girls and pushed it anyway — at that point you're not dealing with a neutral tool parents can just 'supervise,' you're dealing with a corporation that's actively working against you.
I was deep in toxic Reddit communities at 14 and genuinely thought that was normal discourse, and my parents had zero idea what I was even looking at. Restricting access isn't about distrust, it's about acknowledging that platforms are specifically engineered to exploit young minds.
The 'parenting by legislation' crowd acts like every kid has equally equipped, present, and resourced parents, which is just fantasy — a ban levels the playing field so kids in chaotic households aren't the ones left most exposed.
We already ban under-16s from cigarettes, alcohol, and gambling because we accept their brains aren't ready for those risks — the neuroscience on social media and adolescent dopamine loops is honestly just as damning at this point.
My daughter was 13 when Instagram quietly wrecked her self-esteem over the course of a single school year — no parent catches that in real time, no matter how attentive you are. Sometimes legislation exists precisely because the harm is invisible until it's already done.